How Do I Handle Potlucks and Parties?

and Mediterranean Shrimp & Tomato Bake

Oh glory be, you finally figured it out! You know what was making you or your kid sick: gluten. Stupid stupid gluten. You’re so happy; bring on the health!

But wait – our society is built around food with friends. Crap. What the heck are you supposed to do at barbecues, potlucks and parties?

  1. Bring your own salad dressing. Get those little packets of Newman’s Own dressing and stow some in a plastic tub in your glove compartment. You will be able to enjoy the salads at social gatherings.
  2. Bring your own sweets. You should always have a stash of sweets in your car. I like Aldi’s LiveGFree Double Chocolate Brownie Soft Baked Cookies. You can keep a box of these in your glove compartment (or in your child’s classroom) for times like baby showers where the adorable little stork-shaped sugar cookies are making you want to rush over to your favorite GF bakery and go to town.
  3. Let people know. I know it seems hopeless because even well-meaning people who attempt to make you something GF mess up and you get sick from eating it. But a lot of times, it works! My daughter’s friends’ parents have been incredibly kind, buying GF waffles for sleepover breakfasts and serving eggs and bacon for dinner. People at church started bringing croutons on the side or plain baked potatoes with toppings on the side for potlucks. Most people want to be accommodating.
  4. Don’t be shy about saying ‘no’ if they tried but you’re suspicious they missed something. Just be as kind as possible when you do it, and everyone will get over any hurt feelings. (And if they don’t, well, what can you do?)
  5. Ask if you or your kid can go first. Tell everyone you’ve got just a few things to choose from that are safe to eat and if those things are gone by the time your turn at the table comes around, you’ll be left hungry.
  6. Make a huge portion of something delicious that just happens to be gluten-free. The picture above is from my cooking club with my pal Grace from Taste with Grace. I brought along my go-to potluck dish (recipe below) and it was a hit, even with seafood-averting Midwesterners.
  7. When all else fails (surprise ice cream sandwich party in your kid’s second grade class!), promise yourself you’ll have a GF version later. And then eat it when it’s safe.

Mediterranean Shrimp & Tomato Bake

8 beefsteak tomatoes, cut into fourths

2 Tbls olive oil

sea salt

2 tsps minced garlic

1 – 2 pounds raw, peeled, deveined jumbo shrimp*

1 -2 Tbls lemon juice

1 4-oz pkg crumbled feta

2 c basmati rice, prepared as directed

Preheat oven to 350F. Get the rice cooking. Toss tomatoes in oil, garlic and salt and bake in 9×13 pan for 20 minutes. Meanwhile, peel the shrimp and toss them in the lemon juice. Use 1 Tbls lemon juice per pound of shrimp. Remove tomatoes from oven and stir shrimp in. Top with crumbled feta. Bake for 10 more minutes or until shrimp are just pink and shaped like a letter “C.” Serve all this goodness over rice.

*Please buy sustainably procured shrimp. I want my great grandchildren to be able to enjoy shrimp. Also, our American fishermen need our support. Here’s more information on that: Seafood ChoicesALDI’S seafood chain, and Behind the Business of Shrimp Farming.

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alittlebitofthissite

Kdrama and musical theatre fan; mom of a girl with Celiac and a boy with a sweet tooth; food writer and editor published in Feast magazine, Louisiana Cookin', mental_floss online, and G magazine.

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